A couple have a child before marriage. Couple separate for 9 month, wife file with her lawyer a order & degree, Agreement upon dissolution of marriage,Petition for divorce and Respondent\\\'s waiver of appearance. the wife told the husband its ok you don\\\'t have to come and wife serve the husband with papers to sign. another is the child after they married husband wanted to change child last name to his but wife father said no now wife lawyer and wife on the firs order that husband had to pay $150.00 every month for child. How can the husband know that the money is used for the sole purpose of care and maintenance of the child. How can the husband ind out now if the child is truly his. Can one party file for a divorce just with his or her the lawyer without the other half.